Some of us like to play DJ; others like to leave Pandora on and let it DJ for them.
Some people prefer to play the role of the assistant while others bask in the moment of leadership.
Some people like to sit passenger; others like to drive.
Some people want absolute control and some people want to sit back and take less responsibility.
Happiness comes down to discovering the sweet spot in between: we prefer the confidence of control but sometimes letting go can be more peaceful.
Toggling between leadership and relegation depends on the situation. Stand up when it matters and let go when the occasion requires more listening.