“Anyone can escape into sleep, we are all geniuses when we dream, the butcher’s the poet’s equal there.”Emil Cioran, The Temptation to Exist
The writer feeds his book, he strengthens the parts of it which are weak, he protects it, but afterwards it is the book that grows, that designates its author’s tomb and defends it against the world’s clamour and for a while against oblivion.Marcel Proust, In Search of Lost Time
She ignored whatever did not interest her. With those blows she opened her days like a piñata. A hundred freedoms fell on her. She hitched free years to her lifespan like a kite tail. Everyone envied her the time she had, not noticing that they had equal time.Annie Dillard, The Maytrees
A wonderful perspective on life and work as we go into the New Year and new decade.
“Does the sun ask itself, ‘Am I good? Am I worthwhile? Is there enough of me?’ No, it burns and it shines. Does the sun ask itself, ‘What does the moon think of me? How does Mars feel about me today?’ No it burns, it shines. Does the sun ask itself, ‘Am I as big as other suns in other galaxies?’ No, it burns, it shines.”
— Andrea Dworkin, Ice and Fire
Don’t compete. Make things.
When we compare ourselves to others, we get detached from ourselves.
“Writing, the art of communicating thoughts to the mind, through the eye— is the great invention of the world.”Abraham Lincoln
Imagine you are eighty years old – assuming you’re not eighty already, that is; if you are, you’ll have to pick an older age – and then complete the sentences ‘I wish I’d spent more time on…’ and ‘I wish I’d spent less time on…’. This turns out to be a surprisingly effective way to achieve mortality awareness in short order. Things fall into place. It becomes far easier to follow Lauren Tillinghast’s advice – to figure out what, specifically, you might do in order to focus on life’s flavours, so as to improve your chances of reaching death having lived life as fully and as deeply as possible.Oliver Burkeman, The Antidote: Happiness for People Who Can’t Stand Positive Thinking