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If not now, when?

Why does a clarity of vision come at the end of our lives, twelve weeks before our deathbed?

Doing what you’re told is the most common regret of the dying.

“I wish I had the courage to live a life true to myself, not the life others expected of me.”

Death compels us to prioritize the things we care about: our true self, family and friends, a real passion, whatever we hold dear to our heart.

The real message is to avoid wasting time. To express ourselves fully, to drive ourselves of bed to get things done, turning authenticity and courage into action.

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Why we make lists

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“We like lists because we don’t want to die.”

Umberto Eco

When in doubt, list it out.


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Social Media

Your digital eulogy 


One of the benefits of Snapchat is that your content disappears so that nothing can be used in your digital eulogy. On the other hand, your Twitter, Facebook, and Instagram posts are going to be around forever. And that’s how most people will remember you. 

Artist Gabriel Barcia-Colombo is giving people a chance to visit their own digital funeral at the Los Angeles County Museum of Art to review the type of social media posts people would see after they pass away. 

According to BuzzFeed’s senior writer Doree Shafrir who experienced her own ceremony: 

“All of my tweets started scrolling on a screen in front of me as though to say, you know, here are some words of Doree’s to remember her by – tweeting about wearing a dress to a wedding with pockets or Justin Bieber. And I thought, oh, my God, if I did die – God forbid – right now this is what people would see.”

She also notes that Facebook is the only service right now where you assign someone to manage your page after you die. 

Your legacy is wrapped up in Tweets like your life’s bumper sticker. So be wary of what you say. Conversely, you can leave no trails behind and just use Snapchat or go off the grid altogether like Cal Newport.

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‘It’s not death that I fear’

“It’s not death that I fear, it’s being comfortable in a cloud where nothing ever happens.”

Flying Lotus

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Life is tricky because it happens once and there’s no opportunity for A/B testing.

BuzzFeed’s Jonah Peretti
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An Interview with Ann Wroe, Obituaries Writer for The Economist

“I don’t think of dead as dead, that’s the thing, and therefore it doesn’t trouble me. It’s an absence, if you like. It’s not the end.” She notes how “I never mention how people die, because I don’t think that’s important at all. I think an obituary is a celebration of a life.”

Death as an “absence,” not an end. Now that’s a positive spin!