You have to cultivate everything: awareness, happiness, aloofness, sadness, the yin
Nothing comes naturally, although genetics are known to preprogram our inclinations.
People are constantly surveying, digesting the world around them. So they must also decide what sticks and what doesn't.
Inner and outer feelings express themselves as lifestyles. Fashioning one as an outsider gives them their edge. Being an insider gives one all the answers.
Humans signal their desires and struggles. A lousy sleeper wears their restlessness on them the next day.
When the try becomes a habit, the unconscious controls take over. The body is in concert.
Shaggy but sure — that’s when you know that the desired perspective is a part of you.