The basis for life is all interpretation, an internal chatter that either zaps positive momentum or dwells on negativity and drains the well.
For starters, your attitude should weave together what optimizes you rather than what conflicts with the experience of inner freedom. For example, instead of looking at your day job as a means of necessary survival, try to find how it bends toward your expectations.
You should never feel like you have to do anything. Rather, you should feel lucky enough that you get to do it.
Even more, have something to look forward to even if it's an exaggerated goal. Moon shots will push you to find the right focus.
The law of magnetism attaches near and far more often than you think.
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